W still wants separation, need to DB more

[OfficerInNeed]

How is your situation different? Why do you feel the conversation that has taken place doesn't apply to your situation?

- My W is still at home
- Me and my W still do things with each other (Go places, watch movies/TV)

I am not saying my sitch is unique or different from all others but just from the one being discussed. If anything I am confused by my sitch and have read nearly every thread possible to find clearity. Yes I have found some that relate to my sitch but none exactly like it.

We only been married 5 months. We don't have children, we have a dog who my W treats like a child. My W has told me our marriage is over countless times but yet sometimes she speaks future tense and uses words like "we" and "our." Most of the time my W does not wear her wedding ring but when we go to events ect.. she puts it on. My W is counting down the days till she can leave but yet when I go upstairs she soon follows to see what I am doing. My W no longer wants me in her life once she does leave but when we go places or do something she is always asking for my opinion.

Then there are things like

My txt me when she leaves for work, arrives at work and is on her way home from work (more than likely habit) but very rarely responds to any message I send her (something I use to do to her). My W and I carry on a descent conversation before I/she leaves for work but refuses to say "bye" before I/She leaves (something I use to do).

Her behavior is very contradicting at times and I am unsure how to respond to it. If you read my previous thread, I would say the last 10 pages or so you will get a better idea of what I mean.

It is not that my sitch is unque but rather my WAS is unique...