C-Bart - It's very likely that she feels guilty, unsure and depressed. I think that there is lots of doubt and internal turmoil...they are not as sure as they appear about their choices.

My H left to be with OW - he got what he wanted right?...well he wasn't happy...far from it. He split up with OW 3 months after they "took the plunge". Now he is in major OW withdrawal & depression.

Be her friend and watch what happens next.

M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO