And since when does depression suddenly equal that they don't love you? Why wouldn't they say to you if you had a good relationship.."Honey, I am depressed, but I want you to know that I love you and I am sorry for pulling you down?"
THAT is how it happens in a good relationship.
How do you know that YOU aren't the cause of her depression because she doesn't want to tell you again that she just doesn't have it for you? Maybe she is thinking "is this all there is, I know how hard he tries but I JUST DON'T FEEL the way I want to feel for him"
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
