W still wants separation, need to DB more

[flowmom]

OIN, can I make a suggestion? You might want to start following and posting in other people's threads. That will help you to see how the conversation in your thread relates to your sitch. When one looks at other people's sitches, often what they should be doing seems so obvious. And of course the advice that so readily jumps to one's mind in that case is often the advice that we should be taking ourselves.