G, ta pal. I exposed hard back at Xmas after he dropped the Bomb, but then obviously the A went underground - ya know, it's not too "socially acceptable" to be canoodling with the OW, when Wife is pregnant with planned first child.
YIKES!!!
And Allen A was right: sometimes A's flourish long distance cos they are even more unrequited = romantic.
Would prefer WAH to do the announcing and explaining, I reckon.