Boo. Did you mean "still" considering leaving the site? Boo! Sorry, it's totally your decision. But consider taking just a few days off. Or only checking in once a week. Something!
Yeah, they mentioned MC and yeah we tried it once back in Feb. But he insisted he wasn't going to work on the marriage and that he was going just so that we could "communicate." When the therapist heard him say he didn't want to work on anything, she said that there was no real need for us to come again. That some marriages "just aren't meant to be" and that we should both work on IC.
I was upset about it, of course.
They are so truly mentally unstable, they just have to be! He is getting IC, but. . . it worries me a bit because it makes him justify all of this as "self-exploration." Barf.
I'm done with feeling them out. I want to of course, but no. Plus, he isn't happy but he is SURE he doesn't want to be with me. That's what I've already heard. . .
These guys are insecure about their decision. And with my WH, insecure about basically everything!
Well, if this is your last posting, thanks and good luck to you, too. But I hope it's not the last one.
me, 30 WH, 29 D born June 2010 M: July 2001 Bomb/S: 1/14/10 Done with it all.
But consider taking just a few days off. Or only checking in once a week. Something! 
