Originally Posted By: robx
Originally Posted By: timehealsall
Honestly guys, enough with the piss match.

You totally hijacked OIN's thread. Not cool


I will respectfully disagree, OIN's thread has benefited from a variety of viewpoints regarding a situation that is similar to his own in many ways. He would have to browse and read content from several different threads to get these opinions and viewpoints, this thread benefited from all of this recent action, it gives OIN alot to think about and absorb for his own use.

On a side note, 'thread hijacking', what is this?!
it's not like something is being stolen, the thread still exists and is still here and like I said, there is alot of benefit derived from all this activity.


You are right BUT I am not getting advice for my sitch but rather for a different sicth than mine. I have read that all sicthes are different but yet very similar. I have a WAW who I did not treat so kind for a very long time. I pushed her away (literally, some of the things I told her are just outrageous). Refer to the very first post of this thread and then please provide advice directed toward me about our sitch, I would greatly appreciate that.

What I have been doing has worked somewhat. I have only been trying this approach for 1 week, 4 days. If you go back in this thread I linked to my old thread that was locked where I received other great advice which I did follow and got me this far. Things are NOT where I want them to be but certainly FAR BETTER than they were a month ago.

What exactly is "gucci's way"? I am curious to what you suggest about MY sitch.

Thanks again.


M: 27, W: 25
Together since: 01/31/00
M: 10/4/09 (8 Months)
ILBNILWY: 01/24/10
EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted).
Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10
Retrouvaille: 09/10/10