I am signing the D papers. I don't have any more energy to DB or any fight in me to keep believing.
nothing has changed, except fo rmaybe th eanger in me. Why be friends but not my husband? Why want to move in to help when baby is born but not when i was Pregnant and needed you? Why want to participate in baby naming, birthing classes, and furniture shopping, but not want to be a family? If you want to just be a dad... get a dog already! or go find someone else to have a baby with! Im tired of someone toying with my emotions. Im tired of the whole game. He left almost 4 months ago... didnt just leave me... but left me pregnant.
4 months for me too. Yep, they are the questions, alright.... You know, I think it is Robx who talks about the time thing... it can take a years for our WAS's to develop their unhapiness...so it's gonna take maybe the same time for them to come around (if at all).
They need time to miss you.
We need time to heal and feel - but REALLY feel - we are OK with any outcome.
So let's do what G says and focus on TIME and PATIENCE.
And becoming more positive.
And let's not let the drama queens define who we are or steal our happiness.
