It sounds like you're headed in the right direction. Seems like you're doing good at putting yourself first and now letting him be the one to figure out what in the world is going on. Kudos to you!
I'm no expert on saving a M, (you'd think I'd be after the hell I've endured and made my M last as long as it has!...apparently I'm not with my sitch going on!) but one thing that I have realized without a doubt via DR and this online community is how and why things went the way they did during our last seperation in 2002.
I accepted that my M was over. I GAL. Really GAL. When I did, he noticed and wanted me back. When I gave in and trusted him enough to come home, it wasn't long before I stopped GAL. I did not realize that I'd done this until just recently. I believe that my putting myself last again, putting my H and children and their every wish, need, and desire before my own, I became unattractive again. Whatever you do, if you have a R, do not stop GAL! Been there. Done that. Not good.
Wishing you all the best and so thankful for your advice on my sitch!
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