Thanks BD. The "dead" comment comes from other posters :-) It kinda means WAH can't do any more harm, so don't be afraid about the next blow. I think it's a good thing to know your reality.
I don't really think anything has changed. It's just that the elephant has been exposed.
You & I share the same focus then. It's about us, not them. Let the drama queens have their drama! We have yummy babies on the way :-) HUGS