so now he is turning things around on you? Did your IL's ask mention MC or anything? Does he really think you want this? funny, i asked my H if he was happy i was signing the papers, he said i have a choice?! why do they turn it around when they made the decision to leave? maybe they are so truly mentally unstable that they've convinced themselves that we want this too.

Glad to hear your MIL is on your side... i knew they would be. In circumstances like this, what's right is right... and just because you're related to someone who made a huge mistake, does not mean you accept what tyour H did.

Is he still getting counseling? Not remembering, but did you two discuss couples counseling etc?

Sounds like he is not happy with his current circumstance... maybe while his parents are in town you can feel them out on his take on this?

H left me new years day... days later he went out with friends to watch a football game... was upset to know they knew he left... Why the secret? I think for them they are so insecure about their decision, that they are not ready for the world to know their actions.

Well, lots of luck with everything... strong considering leaving the site... need to work on me... less on DB.

xo BD