Well, not sure exactly when it happened, but the H of a neighbour who is a great friend called my H and left a voice mail. Apparently H-of-my-friend told my H that he should follow through on his commitment and work things out with me in a somewhat forceful manner. He is planning to confront H in person if the opportunity presents itself.
It feels nice to have someone advocating for me, but I doubt this is helpful! I'm worried that H will think I put this guy up to this (given the close friendship his wife and I have). H and this guy have been neighbours for 10 years and they're friendly but they don't confide in one another.
Should I send H an email saying I have nothing to do with this?
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
