What was hitting this morning was the question -- "Was it all a lie?"
Hey CTH, We have all been here, and asked these same questions, so we know how you feel. I'll try and rephrase my thoughts to you in hopes you can see it..
The answer to the question "Was it all a lie" is not what matters. However, the reason you are emotional about it, is you have chosen not to accept the answer to it.
Let me explain, if I can.There are two answers to that question.
1- "Yes, it was all a lie" 2- "No, it was not all a lie"
Knowing that, which answer will make you feel better, in your current situation?
There is only 1 answer to that question. Neither.
So, how do we cope with it? We accept that either answer may be true, but neither answer affects our current present moment!
Exactly! Perfect!
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
