really timehealsall, how should I bust the affair? I really have contemplated it. I did in the past try to call the ow. Well she freaked and said I was harrassing her and wouldn't talk to my h. He came home for one month and then left again now for almost 8 weeks. Sooo, how would I bust the affair? Should I contact her and let her know that she is dating a married man? Should I tell my husband to prove to me with his phone records that he isn't communicating and having an affair with her? At this point I almost don't care if it pisses him off.

This post is the exact opposite of my last post. Hahaha I change my mind constantly. should I have friends who are pro marriage call and leave a message about her morals of dating a married man?


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