Do I now let all the ostriches know that the affair is alive and kicking?

Do I need to tell all the ostriches out there who kept telling me to not focus on the OW and to focus on the baby?

Do I write to WAH and tell him he should shout it from the rooftops if he is so proud, as I will be making no secret of it when I next speak to people?


Me 36; H 40
baby born in May
M:13, T:15
Bomb (OW): Dec 09
began DBing: Feb
WH overseas with OW
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