My husband is addicted to an emotional affair

[nicole8]

I am so tired of sitting here like a sitting duck....I am leaving work early tomorrow to hopefully sign up at the gym. Turns out gym memberships are negotiable and I am all about saving a few dollars. Maybe get a pedicure too!

So I do have a deadline for working on my m. The date is Sept 21st. One year to the date my h first walked out and decided he wasnt able to be a part of our m. This date is of course flexible if we are in fact working on our m at that time.

At this time though he isn't putting any effort into our m at all. He is focused on himself and the ow. He doesn't want to talk about anything and doesn't think it will solve or help anything in our relationship. There is nothing I can do except "drop the rope" and let happen what is going to happen.