Why do you keep asking us "How often does THIS happen," or "What are the odds of THAT happening?" What are you going to do with the answers anyway?
The only questions you should be asking yourself are:
1) Do I love this woman? Do I want to fight for my marriage? Is she a woman of character, temporarily making bad decisions, or is this someone that I don't think it's healthy for me to be married to?
2) What is the BEST approach I can take to fight for my marriage, if that's what I choose to do?
We can't give you percentages and statistics -- we're lay people, on an internet bulletin board. All we can do is share with you what we've seen work, in our own sitches and on the sitches on this forum.
