I will post them tomorrow when H isn't around--he caught me on these boards last time and had a fit. They're a couple of pages.
I think I have started to do the DB thing of not pursuing. I just can't stand running after him when he is so cold. But....it is in my nature to "not pursue". I remember when we dated, he was very standoffish and I went WAY out of my comfort zone getting his attention in the beginning. After I got it, I was really confident and relaxed in the relationship. But in the very, very beginning, he had a couple of gals really after him and I got caught up in "winning" him. Flirted like crazy, was very huggy/touchy, and he was rather standoffish the entire time.
I remember thinking I was about to give up on him--he was just too hard to reach--and it was like he then switched gears and was interested.
