I'm posting all of these non-significant events, but that's all that seems to be happening right now. It's good for me to keep recording these, so I can look back and monitor progress or the lack of it. And maybe it will help someone who is going through this stage of MLC with their spouse.
Stopped by H's apartment to give him the utility bill. He wanted to know how to send a Paypal payment to someone, I proceeded to guide him through it but he got really impatient and said that I should do it, he'll email me the info. I said fain, I don't mind. It seems like he gets really easily frustrated and impatient with the simplest tasks...like it's to much effort for him to deal with and since that's something he can trow my way...he does.
I said that I have to run to the bank and as I was leaving he said "How are you doing?" Not sure if he was referring to our situation or my health (bronchitis). I chose health. I said "I'm much better, how about you? Your eyes are kind of glossy do you still have fever?" Automatically I put my hand on his forehead to check. "No, I don't think you do" I said...He started to get very emotional and tears started to flow. I don't know if it was me touching him or my concern for him...He tried to recover and smiled at me and said "I'm OK". Well he didn't look OK....Wanted to hug him...felt sorry for him...but didn't. I smiled at him as well and left.
He called me twice since then... again about nothing important.
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
