He's not coming back for almost two weeks and when he gets back he will be served. He doesn't care so I'm sure it won't phase him.
You may be right. He may just chalk it up to being the victim (blaming you instead of sharing the responsibilities of M problems).
What if he asks that day or the next in one way to have you reconsider? Would you want to? Would your angry emotions not betray you one way or the other?
I think, a person who hugs someone before serving them wants the man to wake up and make changes.
