DG - The affair has to die a natural death....often they do. Go on with your life and do what you need to do to take care of you and the kids and observe what happens with H's affair from a distance. You never know...once it's over he may want to come back and then it will be up to you to decide if you still want him.
Hang in there girl (((hugs)))
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO