I think he's testing the waters and/or making sure he can keep one toe still inside the door. Whether he's wining and dining 6 OW or not, I don't believe he knows what he wants at all---as evidenced by his hot and cold behaviors.
Hang in there and keep doing what you're doing. Aside from H keeping you on your toes, how are *you* doing? Are you climbing back up from the bottom that smashed into you a couple weeks ago?
Me38,H:38,S:7 Married:6/99 Bomb:7/04 Sep.:5/05 D Filed:3/08;Final 1/10 Piecing:11/09 H moved back:09/10 Current thread: http://tiny.cc/htcty