It would make me want to do it so H could not take a "sympathy" attitude towards me. I would find that very motivational unfortunately.
Also, he may feel a lot of guilt. Who knows? If his depression comes across as numbness, callousness and anger, it's easy to cop an attitude with "female depression" that looks like exhaustion and tears. F him!
Yes and YES! You've pegged my H.
Well I got a lot of cleaning up done! There's always more of course, but it feels good. My parents are arriving on Sunday (from the other side of the continent) so lots of incentive. They are not neatniks, but I like things to be nice when I welcome people into my home.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
