Ex was not being upfront with his lawyer about a lot of things. My lawyer had to fill him in. You could tell that his lawyer was frustrated with my ex in front of the judge. He didn't know about my ex's side business (which he is now claming he hasn't made money with it in over a year), he didn't know that is uncle was his boss, and when he told ex to make sure I got proof of my health insurance (ex switched companies without telling me and then wouldn't give me my health insurance card) ex didn't give it to me until the morning of court. When my lawyer stated the obvious, "If your client is so broke, then how come he can afford you," lawyers response was that ex's grandfather was paying for him. Nice, how about he pay for his grandchildren's child support instead?