(sorry to hijack GIMA)-- my L led me to believe, though, that there are no L's at the table in mediation- at least not the way she does it. It's either you both and the mediator (consulting with your Ls separately outside of it), OR you both and 2 Ls, no mediator...
When the men on the chessboard Get up and tell you where to go; And you've just had some kind of mushroom And your mind is moving slow; Go ask Alice... I think she'll know.