Depression sign #27 paints my husband 100%!!! My H was also a model father before MLC. He had always been close to both of them from the day they were born. All our friends admired him for being such a great father. My GFs even envied me that my H was spending so much time with our children. This is why it took me so long to realize that he had become competitive. I mean I was seeing the signs but I thought it was my imagination.
I have even come to resent him for that because this has hit him at such a wrong time too!! Both our children are gifted and we have both been very proud parents, but these last few years upon him hitting MLC, our kids have had some major achievements (intl. scholarships, etc.) and it seems as if H has been out to lunch, leaving me to be the only parent sharing with them the pride and joy of their successes. H has been too self-absorbed being fed BS by lowlife OW and other peripheral people whose children have turned out to be losers.
Amazing...this was really eye-opening SA, thanks.
Bomb: 4/2009 M28 T32 Sep8 Me: 53, H:57 S20,D17 D papers filed by H: 2013 H didn't follow up with divorce I completely let go ever since