That's an rr22 question. He's probably actually wearing dirty clothes, but I took it in a figurative sense. I may have read too much into it, but I liked the way I interpreted it!
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Example for fighting: Maybe you could send the KS book with something he loves to see and a note, "If you ever want to try this...strings only attached to tie your hands to the bed" or something like that.
YES, he may not even reply. That doesn't mean he didn't think about it.
Maybe that is a little overkill, but you know your H. One thing that brought me back was having my W offer sex. I wasn't so sure I wanted to work things out, but a hug grew into something more, and it was a good reminder of a reason I wanted to be M at that moment. It doesn't solve problems, but it does offer hope.
Hilarious suggestion! I'm not sure this would work for my situation, but you've encouraged me to get creative with my thinking. This weekend would be a good time for me to do some thinking and planning. The weather's going to be bad, so I can settle in for a couple days and get to work.
