Timeheals, Taking your own advice is hard to do...,trust me I know from experience. I know this has nothing to do with me. I am by far not perfect but I know his unhappiness is his own battle to fight. My h claims that he is not in a r with anyone but his voice tells me different. A wife sometimes just knows. I am contemplating asking him to show me his phone records. Pretty sure he won't because he is guilty.
There really is nothing more for me to do except be his friend and be there for him. Which he seems pretty uninterested in. He really is living a fantasy life in highschool. So sad
M 35, husband 35 M 10 Limbo 9/2009-12/2010 he left for his moms and came home way to many times to count Home 12/2010-present