OY, StarvingArtist - I am so sorry to hear your plight. I totally empathize. Good luck in your sitch.
Daddio - "slip something in his drink, he is your husband after all" - LOL. You make me laugh. I can see the headlines now, "Horny wife arrested for slipping a roofie to unsuspecting husband".
YAH - my hubby is even more uncomfortable with erotica than he is with under the covers sex... it's kinda funny/sad - we were having sex on Sat nt, and since we had sex the nt b4 (yay us, tho I can't recall the last time we had sex 2 days in a row but looking forward to more of them!), I had quite the happy orgasm. I guess I was a bit louder than usual and he was like, "shhh, shhh" (tho I assure you it was more moaning than screaming, and certainly no "come on baby, %()C& me harder" kinda talk). This at home in the middle of the nite with 1 kiddo off at a sleepover and the other across the house. While he can move quite nicely, thank you very much, sensory overload makes it awkward... thus no lights, under covers, not too much noise, etc. I don't know how to get past it - don't know if sex will ever be comfortable enough to just be playful and enjoy each other's company for the entire ride beyond it's destination.
Last edited by HDwife; 04/22/1010:36 PM.
Met/Sex: 3/93, married 2000 HD ME: 38 (Cancer Sun, Scorpio Moon) LD HE: 37 (Cancer Sun & Moon) DD: 8.5, DS: 7 Intimate 2x/lunar cycle before cutting self off in attempt to change behavior pattern
