6 MONTHS IN AND FEELING A WOBBLE........

[lalxx]

Was2Sad - my husband has hooked with an ex girlfriend from 25 years ago (they courted for 5 years). They started an EA in Nov 2008 and I am certain it got physical in April 2009 (this is when my husband claims our marriage died whilst on a family holiday in Colorado). He left on our 14th wedding anniversary on Sept 30th 2009.

The OW is 43, never been married, no children and was made redundant from her job last May. My husband's best friend told me she looks like my husband's Mum (who died when he was 15). Throughout last year my husband seemed to go back to this time in his life - musically, behaviour and the people he hung around with (I hate face book). I said last year iit was like he was going back to a time when he didn't know me and was happy i.e. couldn't be happy around the time his Mum died - couldn't be after 25 as we'd been together that long and she sat squarely in the middle of that time.

I ahve got used to his rewritng of our marriage and life together.

I was saying this before I found out about MLC - I am detaching and GALing - I have always said the ebst revenge is for me to crack on have a great life.

I read today a quote from Ann Frank - "I don't think of all the misery, I think of all the beauty which remains" - it resonanted with me.

thank you for your time

lalxx