So to get back to solutions... I find it extremely irritating to go to bed naked (that's my big hint after a few days of other clothed hints) and to have nothing happen. I am wondering if sleeping somewhere else would help or make things worse? Anyone employ this take away with any success?
I have this same problem. I can't get close to even trying to initiate sex anymore because my H does all this "cockblocking". It is to the point now that even if I'm not trying to do anything sexual, if he thinks I am, he gets as far away from me as possible.
When I get naked, he hides his face. In bed, if he's actually facing me, his knees make sure to keep me far from him. He puts pillows between us. If I do anything that's overtly sexual he laughs nervously and says "what are you doing?"
My next step is to start sleeping in the other room and not letting him see me undress ever. It'll be like we're roommates.
If that doesn't work, I'll just start bringing other men home. (Just kidding)
