you may be "BigJake" but i'm not sure you could handle carrying "BigRob" on your shoulders ;-)
You're doing ok, you're going in the right direction, you just needed a nudge to help you hold your chin up a bit higher during the process.
Like I said, she will test you more now than ever but this is the final test, move on with your life. Divorce is just a piece of paper, make sure your lawyer protects your rights, most men think they just deserve a raw deal because you're a man, and it's not true, you get what you ask for, if you ask to be run over and taken to the cleaners, don't complain about it afterwards - speak to your lawyer, if he doesn't think he can take care of you in this respect, shop around and find one that knows how to take care of you, lawyers are a dime a dozen, or 10 cents for 12 even ;-)
