Originally Posted By: BigJake
Your right timehealsall, that's what I was thinking too.

DLS, it's hard to make the brain switch over to "it doesn't matter".

she sent another... wants to have sex a least one more time.

I never thought getting divorced would get me so much action. That's not funny. This is a serious situation involving real people, but it's no fun being serious all the time.


We know it's hard to switch the brain over to thinking like that, that's why you ACT as if you've begun this new mindset and you've awakened to this new idea of life without her as a great thing.

When she asks you if you want to have sex one last time, you tell her

"thanks for the offer but no thank you, I have an appointment with someone else ;-)"

WAW's know they have a certain degree of control over their LBH's with sex, in these situations, men will associate sex with love and their WAW's know this all too well and use it to control their LBH's so that they don't move on to other women - once you appear to move on and they no longer control you, you will notice that she pulls out all the stops to get you back under her grip.

Yes it's that pathetic, people enjoy controlling other people, sadly just a side of human nature that alot of people don't want to acknowledge exists.