Not sure if you even remember me and I hope I'm not overstepping my boundaries....I haven't posted here in more than a year and was just sitting her thinking..."I wonder how everyone else has faired over the last year" so I came back to see if any of the people posting during the same time I did were still around.
At any rate....I gave up on ex after I found out that despite the fact he told me there was NO other woman when he moved out that indeed there had been...all along. Soooo..the nature of my situation is irrelevant...what is relevant (I believe) is that I remember you from the days when I was so wrapped up in my own despair and I remember thinking what an awesome woman you seemed to be. That said, it seems like you've really been hanging in there trying to make this work and I just wanted to give you a different perspective. There is an entire world out there waiting for you....life is short....don't waste any time not getting what you deserve in life. YOU DESERVE THE BEST AND TO BE HAPPY! If that happiness includes your husband...I hope he figures that out soon and gets his head out of his a**. If not, I hope you realize that soon and are able to move on.
I hope this doesn't offend you. I am happier now than I've ever been. Dating someone new and I love him like I've never loved anyone else. Time will tell where it goes for me, but I know that I wouldn't trade what I experienced with my ex for the world. It made me STRONG and I know now I can make it through anything. So can you...don't forget that.
