Oh definitely easier said than done, Katie. It's 100% easier to be stupid than to take the time and brain power to make a good decision.
You don't have to act cheery. No problem withdrawing your attention from him, being aloof. He usually draws closer to you when you do that, anyway, doesn't he? The important thing is that you figure out - poke around - to find out what is going on!
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