guys - I knew my husband had 'made another life' - disengaged from our life together and I tried on dozens of occassions to talk to him about it - first he told me there was nothing wrong, then it was his job, then it was me, then he wasn't having an affair - it was his job and then eventually i confirmed his affair, he moved out and I am picking up the pieces and protecting the children.
I know I made mistakes in our marriage but I know in my heart of hearts I tried really hard to do things differently - to try and get a different outcome - I hope you will start to see the effort you actually put into keeping yur marriage alive and on the right track - and give yourself credit for it but there are times when you are pushing water uphill.......
good luck with your half marathon - go for it!!!
lalxx
Choose Life Me: 45 Him: 44 S:11 D:8 Met in 1992 Married in 1995 Bomb drop September 30th 2009 Divorce final April 16th 2011 exH Marries OW June 17th 2011