Coach knows if what he speaks. You won't go wrong following his advice.
You're right, none of this is fun or funny. How can the person that we fell in love with act this way? It makes no sense at all which is why doing what it takes to fix it doesn't always make sense either.
My W and I had a similar "talk" last Mon. when she got home after 1:30am. I said she needed to leave. She spewed about this M being over for a long time, it was all my fault, etc. She's still here. We had a few good days and last night and this morning sucked. I just acted "as if" and helped and played with the kids. When I left this morning, I didn't tell her good-bye. She hadn't looked at me all morning, why go out of my way? I don't know if that was the right way to handle it or not.
Anyway, the point is, WTF is right! You can't understand WAS. Stop trying. Keep doing what works.
