If he doesn't comply with your boundry, tell him to come back when he will.
Just reading that, I don't like what I hear.
Cheaters lie like children. The drapes could be on fire and they have a lighter in their hands, yet when you ask them why the curtains are on fire? They'll blankly look at you and say "I don't know", or "what curtains?".
Anyway, he had the A, it's his obligation to sit there and offer up WHATEVER it takes in regards to it to set your mind at ease.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11
I agree with dday... but I also know just how you feel. My H and I are piecing and although I am not sure of a PA, I am sure of a EA and I also feel that even though he came to me and wants to reconcile, I dont get a sense of remorse. AND he also said he will do whatever, but I have to lay out what those "whatevers" are, and I would feel more comfortable in his commitment if he could offer up those "whatevers" himself.
How are things going this week?
Me: 25 H:25 M: 2yrs T: 4yrs No Kids Bomb: 11 Feb 10 Newcomers Story
