reconciliation after divorce?

[dday101798]

I know I'm going to bashed for this and I don't give a hoot, afterall, I did get my W back, so I must know something in what I'm talking about.......

Broadcasting the A to everyone and their mother's uncle is about the most infintile and destructive thing you can do to not just your W but you!

One of the biggest things that my (x)W is so appreciative for, despite all the nasty things she did, was other than here, where I vented, I protected her, I stuck up for her, and never once did I openly expose the A, she did that enough on her own.

Anyway, hey any chance, now you have proof right? You sound pretty gash darn pissed right? What the bloody hell do you think your W has been enduring for all these years????

So now what do you do?

You ask yourself, do you love this woman? Not who she is now, but who she was, and who she was all along at your side knowing you betrayed HER, but she stayed there faithful until now.

Then ask yourself if you can ever forgive her for this, and accept, you've done wrong and now she's done wrong. The slate is clean, can you get over it?

Finally ask yourself, how long you can ride this out IF you do in fact love the woman you betrayed who is now betraying you (and no, it doesn't make it right, nor is it "fair" in all essence, but, it is what it is).