I am such a &^%$&*()) idiot. Of course it is all a game. She asks for a divorce, then goes into a depressive tailspin...going to lose everything, etc.

Just uncovered evidence of continued EA if not PA with the OM. It has all been lies. All of it.

Now what do I do?

H 51, W 46
no kids
T 22 years
M 17 years
ILBNILWY 2/10
1st D talk 6/10
partial recovery
W files D 5/11
long distance separation 8/11
moving forward on D 10/11
legal separation complete 1/2012