No, 8 years ago I was cheating on my girlfriend at the time with my now WAS. My WAS was the other woman. My relationship to my girlfriend ended and I went for IC. Shortly after I started dating my now WAS and have been faithful ever since.
I totally agree the relationship isn't healthy, thats why I'm here. None of the relationships on this site are healthy and I don't know how to get it to that place. Or if I want it at all anymore. Like everyone else here I just want a peaceful, loving relationship with my partner. And one that's monogamous.