W still wants separation, need to DB more

[MrBond]

Nope. Everyone's sitch depends on the individuals involved. When I said "it's just the way it is" I meant it as a general statement that people get back together for different reasons and methods.

"When they say "its just the way it is", is there some sort of conspiracy today that women are going to be cheating on us and expecting us to wait, and change for the better?"

Of course not. What kills me on this site is how some people think there is a one method cures all. It's a combination of things based on your own sitch. That's why DB stresses that you should do what works. If you try something and it's not getting a good response, then do something else.

I mean how many people actually do what the book recommends? Writing in a journal, trying things out for a week and then writing your progress by sticking to that plan? Very few.

If "going gucci" works for them, great! If being a little more giving works, great! This site is about Divorce BUSTING. And that's the ultimate goal.