W still wants separation, need to DB more

[MrBond]

robx,

When people start mentioning and criticizing my own personal sitch in someone else's post that's an attack.

And besides I've never said that one way was better than another. Everyone is different and if one person chooses to do it one way and not the other, it's their choice. It's not a matter of poor self-esteem or whatever.

It's a choice. Guys have to respect that if you want to be respected in return.

Actually I would encourage you and SM to also check out the survivinginfidelity website. Alot of hurting people in there that could learn a thing or two from you both.