what do you mean you were dating someone else 8 years ago, no sex and you don't consider that cheating? you were dating this OW the same time as your G? that's cheating to me. regardless of whether there was intercourse or not.

M: 32
H: 34
S:5
D: 3
D: 1
Together 11 years
Married 7
Bomb: PA/EA 8/13/09 (for 1 year on and off)
ILYBINILWY: 08/09

"The end of suffering happens with the end of wanting."
-Laura Munson