It sounds to me that Mrs. Gima may have come to the point that she actually realizes what she is doing. It might be a good thing. Especially since nothing really happens until you sell the house. Keep up your DB'ing efforts. You never now what might happen!
My thoughts are with you GIMA. Keep your expectations at zero and stay detached.
You will be fine.
OP,
I think you are right here, but I have NO expectation she will stray from her course. She has a strong ability to push those emotions down and not deal with them. I remain open to work on the M (for the right reasons), but do not think she will change her course.
