Hey Jake! I'm very proud of you. I know how hard it is. Telling the person you love to move on and that you don't want to be with them anymore. It pulls on your heart.

As for the female friend, I would tell her point blank that you can't get into anything serious right now. She will understand.

Part of me wants so bad to find someone to distract me.. but at the end of the day, I feel like I'll just end up doing to H what he did to me. and I don't want to mess myself up too bad emotionally, you know? I feel like I need to go through this, without distractions. I feel like I need to feel these feelings in order to get past it.

Hugs to you!


M: 32
H: 34
S:5
D: 3
D: 1
Together 11 years
Married 7
Bomb: PA/EA 8/13/09 (for 1 year on and off)
ILYBINILWY: 08/09

"The end of suffering happens with the end of wanting."
-Laura Munson