Frank--don't feel like you have to leave this place! I've been final for almost a year, and still come here from time to time; some of my best friends are people I've only "met" here. The last thing you want to do as you're making the next transition is to feel isolated.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012