I think your mom is worried about you and rather than be more compassionate about it, she's venting and is angry. My mother would probably be the same way with me.
I think you need to sit them down and hear them out and let them hear you out.
As for WAW, you are providing her with the physical aspect of a R that she needs. OM is providing her with the emotional aspect. You shouldn't have to settle. That's not right. I feel like you're getting too comfortable with her.
hang in there.
M: 32 H: 34 S:5 D: 3 D: 1 Together 11 years Married 7 Bomb: PA/EA 8/13/09 (for 1 year on and off) ILYBINILWY: 08/09
"The end of suffering happens with the end of wanting." -Laura Munson