Don't feel that you can't keep coming here. I always thought of this forum as after the divorce, and thus didn't come here until then. I know now that it isn't. All stages of divorce are included.

Issues will still arise and sadly they don't just go away once you are Divorced. Please don't feel cut off in any way. Years later people still come here.

I am sorry that you have gone through this terrible mess. You are doing a great job keeping it together.

kat

Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory