It's non sequitor.

I agree with WII and IWITW. It's a question similar to the chicken/egg question. There is no answer.

The reason we record and study history in school is to learn from it. Learn what may have been actions/attitudes attributable to a little boy or just having grown up with 'bad tools'. Retain that which made you desireable to marry. Continue that which makes you a great man and father.

Originally Posted By: frank_d

You'll be OK.


FIB

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I really don't think I'll accept I'm getting divorced until the paperwork is signed and the judge signs off on it. Was anyone else like this?

I wrote my last post before seeing this question. Your feelings are similar to many other men here.

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;